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How Second Chance Love works

From your first answer to your first coffee date, every step is designed to feel calm, clear and safe.

1
Create your profile
About 10 minutes
Answer simple questions about your life today, your values and what you’re looking for. Prompts help you write your introduction.
2
Get verified
Under a minute
Take a selfie. Our team confirms you match your photos, usually within 24 hours. Your selfie is never shown publicly.
3
Receive daily suggestions
Every day
We suggest a few compatible members, with a short explanation of what you have in common.
4
Connect when it’s mutual
At your own pace
Tap “Interested” on profiles you like. When they feel the same, your photos are revealed and you can start talking.
5
Meet in person, safely
When you’re ready
Take your time. When it feels right, choose a public place and follow our first-date tips.

What makes a good match

Our suggestions are built on three things that matter more after 40 than a quick glance at a photo.

Faith, family, travel, community. What matters most to you, and to them.

Divorced, widowed or never married, with or without children at home. We take your whole story into account.

Long-term partner, companionship or friendship first. We favour people who want the same thing.

You don’t need to be good with technology to feel at home here.

Enlarge the text in one tap from the bottom of any page.

Clear buttons, plain language and no hidden menus.

Questions? Our team answers by email, usually the same day.

Join adults over 40 who value kindness, honesty and taking their time.